Scorpio is represented by the scorpion, which protects its sensitive interior with a hard external shell that ends with a stinger. This dynamic of being sensitive and sweet, yet possessing the power to retaliate when threatened can be especially difficult for Scorpio men because of the societal pressures to not show emotion. Often when a Scorpio man gets angry, they do a few things to cover up their deeper emotions.
Some sulk. Others refuse to show their hurt feelings outright. Scorpio men, especially mad Scorpio men, should not be messed with, and when they do get upset , it is best to diffuse the situation the best you can rather than stoke the flames. Scorpio men know your emotional weaknesses, so they will attack where you can be hurt the most permanently.
That planetary influence coupled with the societal conditioning of men using violence rather than other outlets for their emotions can result in physical fighting. I by no means condone this, nor do I think that all Scorpio men behave this way, but it is a possibility to be cautious of. Of course, situations can affect whether a Scorpio man decides to behave this way; they may redirect their anger at someone or something else, like boxing.
Scorpio is the most cautious man of the zodiac, and being on guard all the time can be tiring. So help him loosen up a bit. He needs to be coaxed out of him. Make him feel safe, loved and taken care of. Most importantly show him that you are patient and that he can trust you. Never try to control him. He hates being controlled. You must let him live life on his own terms. You should always stick up for your own needs and independence. He might not like it, but he will respect you for it.
And it will make things a lot easier for you in the long run. Opening up in relationships is challenging for Scorp, so he might subconsciously play games to test you. But early on they can play these hot and cold games to test the waters aka your resolve in their own way. Try to not let it phase you.
Know that once they do become serious their stable, trustworthy and honest side dominates. Scorpio can be blunt and cutting. He is attracted to women who do not get easily offended and can handle any taboo or discursive topics that he brings up. Scorpio knows his own worth, and unnecessary flattery turns him off.
If anything, trying to please his ego all the time will just cause him to question your motives. Reveal yourself to him slowly. Scorpio loves mysteries and the unknown. He gets bored with people that he can figure out easily — which is the majority of people he comes across.
So be mysterious. Make yourself a puzzle for him to figure out. By being vague and alluring you will make him want to figure you out. Play a little hard to get. So delay satisfaction, tease him a little. You can even be a little mean to him. It will stir him up in a good way. Sure, he might get a little mad or upset. It might just give him the push he needed to come after you.
Emphasize your loyal nature. Scorpio has a sore spot around loyalty. His worst fear is having someone close, especially a partner, betray him intimately. So go out of your way to show that you honor and appreciate loyalty in every aspect of life.
Be involved in a cause. If you have a passion that you care deeply about; whether it be social, environmental, or political, share it with him. He will be able to connect with you more easily because he sees you share a common dream of improving life on the planet. While Scorpio invites critiques and differences in opinion in private, he will not like it if you challenge him in front of people. Disagreeing with him in a playful way is fine and recommended. Make some sexual jokes. Scorp man likes this.
Underneath all of his interactions there lies a sexual tension. So if you broach sexuality, especially in a joking manner, he will be intrigued. And since sex is so important to Scorpio, you can glean a lot about him based on his reactions or any jokes or comments he makes himself. Create an appealing environment. Scorpio loves beautiful, attractive spaces and places. If you have a great house, find a way to bring him to it. If you know of a beautiful, secret location in your town, bring him there.
He wants a partner who is real and unabashedly themselves. Remember, he wants to be with a powerful partner. Not a pushover. Know that he is incredibly selective with high standards. A Scorpio man will need a partner who satisfies his myriad qualifications in a lover. He needs to be satisfied with the depth of their personality, how they dress, how they spend their time, etc.
In relationship he expects his partner to have consistent, logical and measured responses to circumstances. In contrast, he hates flaky, indecisive, and inconsistent people. You catch his penetrating eyes digging into you. Scorpio loves a good mystery.
Being under his gaze can feel a little unnerving for you. You might feel exposed and vulnerable as from his look. A Scorpio with a crush is a man obsessed. He must know everything there is to know about you.
He will secretly, obsessively stalk you day in and day out. He also might try to keep tabs on you. It might be a little creepy at first, him keeping tabs on you like this is him being interested in you. Scorpio loves to touch and get physical.
He tests you. Scorpio always knows exactly what buttons to push with people. He normally holds off with this, but he will probably test some by pressing a few of your buttons to see what you do. He wants to spend a lot of time with you. Scorpio is a mostly solitary creature. So if he is seeking you out, you must have really caught his attention. Take advantage of his interest and show him how great you are.
He wants to know all of your secrets. He includes you in his social groups. He shares private things about himself with you. This is a telltale sign of Scorpio attraction. He has a hard enough time opening up to close family and friends. He pines after you secretly while outwardly treating you with destain. This happens when Scorpio is being insecure about revealing his interest.
Of course, he might also just tell you that he likes you. Allow him to be chivalrous. Scorpio likes a strong, empowered woman. But he also prefers a feminine woman who defers to him and likes to be taken care of by her man.
So when dating, go out of your way to let him dote on you. Slow down before you reach the door so he can open it for you. Tell him what you like to eat and drink so he can order it for you. He wants to come off as powerful and in control. So help him to embody those qualities and Scorpio will grow more and more attracted to you.
Show him your independent nature. Scorpios are turned off by displays of dependency and weakness. Yes, if he likes you he wants to see you get attached. He wants to have your exclusive focus and devotion. But he also wants a woman who can handle being alone, make her own friends, and develop her hobbies and professional interests.
Be ready to take things slow at first. Scorpio takes time to open up. There are so many things that Scorpio man is not going to tell you in the beginning. Scorpio is a protective sign and will not risk exposing too much that could possibly be used to attack him in the future. Be discreet when revealing yourself. You have to consciously act mysterious with the highly perceptive ones. Confuse him a bit, intentionally throw him off the trail a bit here and there and he will go wild for you.
Always support him around others. Always stand by your Scorpio if someone is critiquing him. Do not join in with others who are joking at his expense.
Let him have his female friends. Do not get upset by this or show jealousy. Scorpio has a bit of a double standard around jealousy. He can be jealous to the extreme, but he expects his partner to not be so jealous of him. Know that he will amplify whatever emotions you show him. Scorpio has a radar for how you are feeling.
Show him a negative side, and he will amplify your negativity back at you. Show him your loving side and he will mirror it with his. Own your feelings, act genuinely and his respect for you will grow. Be aware of his jealous and possessive nature. Every Scorpio has the potential to get intensely jealous. When he gets fearful or threatened in a relationship he will often revert to this protective tendency. Suspicion can develop into paranoia and the Scorpio can sometimes slip into aggressive, neurotic behavior.
Unfortunately, Scorpio can cling to you prematurely while dating and sometimes get jealous very early in the relationship. If you can, try to accept this potential in his nature. If you want to be with him, simply reassure him of your loyalty to him and let the jealousy blow over. Make sure to assert yourself and your freedom. Remember, Scorpio can get clingy and jealous early on in a relationship. He can also get controlling. You might find a Scorpio who forgives you if you cheat on him physically, and he might even cheat himself for purely physical gratification.
For him, a relationship is all about emotional loyalty. The Scorpio inner world is so intense, so deep and so vulnerable that emotional reliability is essential for him to feel happy and safe in relationship. He needs you to be entirely there and he needs to feel that he has some kind of ownership over you emotionally.
Be sexually open. When it comes to the bedroom, Scorpio likes things to get very hot and heavy, both physically and emotionally. He wants to ravish your body and he wants to merge with your soul. So let him have you. Let him possess your body and enter your soul.
He will want to dominate and he will want to push your sexual limits. Sex with Scorpio is a powerful experience.
This tends to come from Scorpios with lower integrity. This can be rough for the partner because Scorpio will still show them all of his intense focus and he can really take them for a spin, only to later divulge his lack of seriousness about the relationship. Dating a Scorpio will always be an intense experience. The intense experience of this lover will haunt you for the rest of your life.
How to Sexually please a Scorpio man. To make your Scorpio satisfied in your bed simply allow him to take control. Sex with Scorpio is a wild ride. Be present, be open and let him ravish you.
He wants to feel like the alpha between the sheets, so emphasize your submissive side. Expect things to get kinky, too. Satisfy those dark, taboo urges in him and he will fall at your knees. He sees sex as deeply spiritual. While Scorpio loves raw, animalistic sexual expressions, he also sees sex as a potent spiritual outlet. Expect Scorpio to be drawn to tantric forms of sexuality and want to explore them with you during some of your sexcapades.
Their inner intensity can result in the ice-cold self-control and detachment of the surgeon. Any profession in which intense analysis, investigation, research, dealing with practicalities and the solving of mysteries are relevant, appeal to them. No one holds a tighter grudge than a Scorpio. A Scorpio in a bad shape can be a master manipulator.
If you have broken their trust, even the sweetest Scorpio will likely have a hard time forgetting—and they will get back at you in the end. A Scorpio will never forgive or forget when someone wrongs them and since they have immense patience, they can wait a long, long time before striking in revenge.
Trust Me Scorpios antennas go up the minute anyone says this. However, despite their lack of trust in pretty much everybody, Scorpios will want to know everything. Keep them informed. They hate surprises especially when it involves them. It is better to prove your loyalty to a Scorpio than shout about it from a rooftop.
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