If a guy was recently mean and then nice to you then you might be wondering why and what it could mean about the way that he feels about you.
So, what does it mean when a guy is mean to you then nice? It would likely be a sign of emotional issues and can often be a sign that he is jealous of you especially if he does it when you are around other men.
It could also be a sign that he likes you if he teases you and shows other signs of attraction around you. There are actually a number of things to consider when trying to understand why a guy might be mean to you and then nice and there are a number of reasons why he might do it.
Each of the different reasons why a guy will be mean and then nice to you will likely come with a number of clues in the way that he does it and the body language that he shows.
Below, I will mention a number of reasons why a guy will be mean and then nice to you, the signs to look for and the things to consider. This is because some men will act mean then nice to get you to think about him more, to feel like he is not into you which will make you think about him more and to try and be funny.
In this case, it would be more likely that he would tease you and not be mean to you. If he is mean to you then it could be that he is attracted to you but it would also suggest that he is jealous, dominating or that he has mood swings. If he does do it in a mean way rather than a teasing way then it would be a strong sign that you should avoid dating him. Instead, he might just need a little space to breathe. Perhaps he needs the space to sort out his life or his emotions, but either way, his way of telling you that he needs is space is by pushing you away with his meanness.
He has conflicting feelings for you. On the bright side, you know that he still has feelings for you. On the other hand, those feelings might not outweigh his current situation. He is starting to develop feelings for someone else.
Oh man, this one hurts. When a guy is starting to fall in love with another person while still in a relationship with someone else, things can get nasty. He wants to break up. Trouble with finances are common reasons for relationships to become difficult. Questions regarding condom boxes are also certain indications that answers need to be given by someone. His behaviors have become unacceptable.
Determine what you want for your future and which type of relationship you would like to maintain. Share your thoughts and feelings with him. Have a great day, Emily! He has chosen to shout at you. Regardless of his potential feelings for you, he has shown that he is unstable and immature. Do not attempt to nourish a relationship with him at this time. If he reaches out to you in the future and shows that he has matured, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings with him at that time.
Have a great day, Nafeesah! There is this senior colleague of me mine at work. Always commenting on whatever I do in a mean way. I was studying and had put off my glasses for a sometime, he even commented on that while passing by saying oh why studying without your glasses. What the hell is wrong with him? This person is a sad, angry person. He finds pleasure in being rude, and he is someone that you should avoid. Be direct with him about your feelings. If he does not change his behaviors, then speak with your company about his inappropriate actions.
If you feel that you are not being listened to, then you may need change your job. Have a great day, Pluto! At first the conversations were interesting, just flowing naturally, he would msg me first, compliment me and everything. Then this one time we started talking about intimate stuff, he was quite open.
But then not long after that our conversation started shifting its tone, it felt like we were trying to out smart each other, teasing, debating etc. Yesterday he told me to sit down and be humble, I tried to brush it off as a joke but he stopped responding.
Life coach and therapist KeVonya Webb-Riley says it's a signal he wants to protect you, which probably means he at least kinda likes you. If he remembers not only your boundaries but your touch preferences, marriage and family psychotherapist Yasmin A. Razek says it's a sign he's responsive and aware of your needs, which is kinda major. For example, if you once shared that you love cuddling with your pet after a bad day, this might clue him in that you value quality time or physical touch.
If he later asks if cuddling would make you feel better after a hard day, Razek says this could be super indicative of an attraction. Yes, not looking at his phone is the literal bare minimum, but it is a good indicator.
The amount of people you see at restaurants scrolling and texting instead of talking is gross. If he actively puts his phone away, he doesn't deserve a medal or anything, but it shows he might not be complete scum. Hugs can be confusing since platonic people hug, but Betsy Chung , PsyD, says to pay attention to the embrace. While you're dissecting his hug, concentrate on his lead-in. Webb-Riley says if he grabs your arms to place them over his shoulder when hugging, this is a sign he's into you since it's an easy position to segue into a kiss if that's what you're feeling.
Are you smiling as you talk? Being super animated? Razek says if he subconsciously mirrors your facial expressions, it shows he's actively listening and engaged. Like, if you're crying and he has a frozen smile on his face or if you're laughing and he's looking his dog just died, that might not be the best sign.
I kinda leaned my head a little and he smiled. Everyone thinks we are perfect together. We have our moments but I had asked him if he liked me and he said why I was asking and I just said nothing. What is frickin going on?!?!? I dont knw y he acts he doesnt lk me and he lks flirting which makes me very upset. There's this boy called Joe and i Love him but then his Best friend who is a girl is crushing on him but when the teacher put us toghther he has been flirting to me and keeps on making me laugh does he like me????
There's a guy who I saw a couple of times. There's this guy in my school and all my friends say he's stalking me and he likes me but he always say bad words to me so I don't really know if he likes me. More blather from women trying to convince themselves that guys really do like them, to take the sting out of rejection. Number 3 for sure!
Not saying names "cough" Hayden but he wouldn't ask me out for like ever because he thought that too. If you are one of my fans then yes hannies real the wink on live steam was too.
Love yall. He was drink, his girlfriend is around, he goes on his knees and proposes marriage, tells me he loves me, next day, he comes to sit next to me, but he won't talk to me, or look at me, then I ask him, guess what radio silence.
They say he was drunk, I believe them. Stupid stupid stupid. He was flirting a lot until he found out that I was saving myself for marriage. We both drunkenly made out and then cuddled overnight a few weeks ago, but we've managed to move past that and remain good friends. It is without question that we are attracted to each other, but at the same time we both know without saying that a relationship would be doomed to fail since we have different values and expectations.
My crush knows I like him and stares at me all the time yesterday he fixed his hair copied. And is mean to me he talks to my friend about me every day sometimes he is like I dont like her and other days he is like I like her tell her to hang out with me some time. I am pretty sure he cares about what his friends think more then what himself thinks of me. So far.. Maybe its for the best, you can't date someone that thinks you are with another, is a coward cause he avoids you and specially is embarrassed of you because of what his friends say.
So theres lots of truth in these, and my self-deprecative thoughts are building up hastily. But honestly, I really think like this, good observations. I reckon that if he usually goes out with anyone in a heartbeat but he doesn't with you but still LIKES you, then he probably doesnt want you for a booty call but for an actual relationship. Guys really are a lot different than girls. My boyfriend is such a simple guy, but thinks he is very open and I should know how he is feeling.
Sometimes guys just don't know how to tell a girl they like her. It's also possible that he's acting like he doesn't like you because he really doesn't like you! It's a mistake to believe a grown man is rude to you because he likes you. This type of thinking can be a gateway to accepting abuse later. One of the problems a lot of women have with men is trying too hard to "read signals" and look for "hidden meanings" behind words that are said or unsaid.
If someone behaves like they're not interested in you don't bother wasting your time trying to "figure him out". Move on! One man's opinion! There is a difference in liking a girl and thinking she's attractive. If he thinks you're attractive then this is good advice, but if he likes you then it's all crap.
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